Sustainable Fat Loss; No Starvation, No Misery, Just Results
When we hear the words fat loss, chances are the images that come to mind aren’t pleasant. I always used to feel this way. Just hearing weight loss would make me think of endless restrictions, grueling workouts, constant hunger, and fatigue.
While I’m not here to tell you that fat loss is easy, I don’t believe it has to be miserable, either. What if there is a sustainable way to reach your fat loss goals without sacrificing your happiness?
Here, I’ll explain how to approach fat loss in a way that’s realistic, effective, and even enjoyable - so you can achieve lasting results without hating the process.
I’ll also share insights from my own fat loss journey - the mistakes I’ve made, the lessons I’ve learned, and the strategies that worked best for me.
Two paths to fat loss; two results.
On the left, I was starving, struggling and didn’t maintain muscle.
On the right, I was thriving, strong and maintained muscle.
Why Traditional Fat Loss Methods Fail
When most people think about fat loss, they imagine strict meal plans, extreme calorie cuts, and torturous workouts. These approaches might deliver quick results, but they’re rarely sustainable - and I know this from personal experience.
For years, I thought success meant being as restrictive as possible. I ate very few calories and spent a ridiculous amount of time on the stair stepper. At first, I did see some results, but before long, I was exhausted, irritable, and struggling with sleep.
Worse, I wasn’t even happy with my body composition. This led to a cycle of restriction and bingeing that left me feeling defeated, miserable, and struggling with hormonal upheaval.
The truth is, many popular methods set you up for failure due to misinformation. That’s why finding a sustainable approach among all the diet hacks - one that fits your lifestyle and supports your goals - is so important.
Exercise That Supports, Not Punishes
In the past, I believed that the more I sweat during a workout, the better my results would be. I’d spend five to six days a week on the stair stepper, and any day I missed, I felt like I wasn’t doing enough. On top of that, my strength training was poorly planned, which led to overtraining specific muscle groups while neglecting others.
Over time, this approach left me feeling weak, mentally drained, and often struggling with minor injuries because I wasn’t properly nourishing my body.
What I’ve learned is that exercise should support your body, not punish it. Strength training, in particular, became a game-changer for me once I started doing it properly. By following a balanced plan and focusing on effective weightlifting techniques, I finally started to see the changes I wanted in my physique.
I loved the shape I achieved from lifting intentionally, reducing cardio and allowing my muscles the time they needed to recover. Strength training helped me build muscle, improve my metabolism, and reshape my body in ways cardio alone wouldn’t.
Something else I’d like to point out is that sustainable exercise isn’t about being at the gym for hours at a time. It’s about finding a form of movement you enjoy, whether it’s walking, dancing, yoga, or swimming. When you enjoy the process, it becomes part of your lifestyle instead of feeling like a chore.
Fat loss isn’t about restriction, but knowing how to fuel properly.
Mindset and Patience
When it comes to fat loss, one of the biggest hurdles is managing your expectations. We live in a world that promotes quick fixes, and overnight transformations, but sustainable fat loss doesn’t work that way. In fact, it’s worth being cautious of any program that promises rapid results. True, lasting change takes time, consistency, and a mindset shift.
Think about how long it took you to reach your current habits and patterns - it likely took months or even years. It’s only natural to recognize that reversing unhealthy habits won’t happen overnight. For instance, replacing emotional eating with coping methods can take a good deal of time and effort.
For me, one of the hardest lessons to learn was that progress isn’t always linear. There were weeks when the scale didn’t move, and I’d feel frustrated, questioning if I was doing enough. Over time, I realized that fat loss is about much more than a number on the scale. It’s about building habits, gaining strength, and noticing how your body feels and functions.
Patience and self-compassion are key to making this process sustainable. Instead of expecting perfection, I started focusing on consistency and balance. Each meal choice, each workout, and even each rest day became a step forward with every mindful action taken.
Shifting my mindset from “all or nothing” to “small steps add up” not only helped me achieve my goals but also made the journey far more enjoyable.
This new mom proves that life doesn’t have to be easy or perfect to start your fitness journey. Balancing the demands of caring for a newborn while focusing on her health comes with its challenges, but she’s staying committed to the process—and that’s what matters most.
Practical Strategies for Readers
1. Plan and Prepare Balanced Meals
One of the first steps to building balanced meals is to start by tracking your food for at least a month. Food tracking can be incredibly eye-opening, helping you understand your current eating habits and set realistic goals for calories, protein, carbohydrates, and fats (often referred to as macros).
If you’re unsure where to begin, working with a coach or using a reliable tracking app can help you in determining the right macros for your goals.
That said, food tracking isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. There are plenty of other ways to approach balanced nutrition. For example, you can focus on building your plate by including a protein source, plenty of vegetables, a healthy fat, and a serving of carbohydrates at each meal.
Another option is to focus on tracking just protein and fiber, which are two key components of a satisfying, nutrient-dense diet.
The key is to choose a method that fits your personality and lifestyle. Whether you prefer the structure of food tracking or a more visual approach like building balanced plates, the goal is to create habits that feel sustainable for you.
2. Find Movement You Enjoy
Fat loss doesn’t mean forcing yourself into workouts you hate. Many people genuinely enjoy the feeling of lifting weights when it’s done properly. However, if other forms of exercise like swimming, yoga, dancing or walking appeal to you more, that’s great too! It’s all about finding activities you enjoy and can stick with long-term.
3. Stay Hydrated
Hunger and fatigue are often signs of dehydration. Drinking enough water throughout the day is essential for managing cravings and maintaining steady energy levels.
4. Build Consistency, Not Perfection
Life happens, and no one follows a plan perfectly. The goal is to focus on consistency over time. If you have a challenging day, don’t stress - just pick back up where you left off and keep moving forward with your training days.
Michelle’s weight loss success has come from her hard work, consistency and the right approach!
5. Be Mindful of Social Situations
Eating out or attending events doesn’t have to derail your progress. Once you’re familiar with tracking food or building plates, navigating social settings becomes much easier because of your ability to “eat intuitively”. Building balanced plates can become second nature and social events no longer need to feel intimidating.
When eating out, simplify the choices by scanning menus for protein-rich meals and enjoying smaller portions of indulgent foods. Also, don’t forget that one meal doesn’t define your entire journey - it’s the consistency you choose to maintain that counts the most.
Addressing Common Challenges
Even with the best plan, fat loss isn’t always smooth sailing. Challenges like plateaus, cravings, and busy schedules can make it tempting to give up. But these obstacles are normal and manageable with the right strategies. Here’s how to tackle some of the most common challenges on your journey to sustainable fat loss:
1. Overcoming Plateaus
Hitting a plateau can feel discouraging, but it’s a natural part of the process. As your body adapts to changes, your progress may temporarily slow.
Reassess Your Habits: Are you staying consistent with your nutrition and exercise? In the early stages of a lifestyle change, you may see big results even with inconsistent efforts. However, as your body adapts, small deviations can add up over time.
Adjust Your Plan: Weight loss changes your calorie and macronutrient needs. Slightly adjusting your calorie intake or workout intensity can help break through a plateau.
I’ve worked with many clients who came to me feeling frustrated by a plateau, thinking they were doing everything right but seeing no progress. One common issue I’ve noticed is that, over time, they unintentionally stopped being as consistent as they were at the start.
We addressed this by tracking their habits more closely and making small adjustments to their plans. For example, with one client, we reduced her calorie intake slightly to reflect her lower body weight and shifted her strength training program to include more progressive overload techniques.
For another, simply increasing her daily protein intake and ensuring she was hitting her step goal made a huge difference.
Focus Beyond the Scale: Fat loss isn’t just about weight. Track measurements, comparison photos, and improvements in mobility, strength, and endurance to recognize your overall progress. Management of sleep patterns can also lead to overall better function. Take advantage of sleep apps to help you figure out how many hours works best for you.
More results without misery!
2. Managing Cravings and Hunger
Cravings and hunger can derail even the most dedicated efforts, but they are manageable.
Don’t Skip Meals: Regular meals with protein, properly balanced carbohydrates, healthy fats, and fiber help keep you fuller for longer. Some of the best healthy fats are avocado, olive oil, and fatty fish for example.
Identify Triggers: Emotional or stress-related cravings are common. Recognize patterns and find alternative ways to cope, such as breathing exercises, meditation, walking, journaling, or calling a friend.
Include Free Meals and Controlled Refeeds: Over-restriction often backfires. A well-designed plan includes regular free meals and controlled refeeds to keep you satisfied and reduce the risk of bingeing.
Here are a couple examples of what my meal prep looks like.
3. Finding Time for Fitness and Meal Prep
Life gets busy, but planning ahead makes staying consistent much easier.
Schedule Workouts and Meal Prep: Treat your gym time and meal prep like any other important appointment. Block out specific times on your calendar to prioritize your health.
Batch Cook: Prepare meals in advance to save time and reduce stress during the week. Simple strategies for meal planning like cooking in bulk or using a slow cooker can make all the difference. Personally, I find that meal prepping on Sunday afternoons sets me up for success for the entire week.
Multitask with Movement: Incorporate activity into your daily routine. Take walking meetings, do squats while waiting for food to cook, do bodyweight exercises at home, park far from your destination when able, play sports with friends, or play with your kids and pets (if you have them).
Meeting up with friends for a walk vs. a meal is a great way to multitask with movement!
4. Handling Setbacks Without Guilt
Slip-ups are a normal part of the process, but how you handle them makes all the difference.
Avoid Overcompensation: Overeating one day doesn’t mean you need to under-eat the next. Simply return to your routine without punishing yourself.
Reframe the Situation: Use setbacks as learning opportunities. Reflect on the cause of the slip-up and brainstorm ways to prevent it from happening again in the future.
Celebrate Your Progress: Focus on how far you’ve come instead of dwelling on a single mistake. Fat loss is a marathon, not a sprint.
Focusing on your Sustainable Fat Loss Journey
Sustainable fat loss isn’t about quick fixes or punishing your body - it’s about creating habits that support your goals and fit your lifestyle. By focusing on balanced nutrition, enjoyable movement, and a resilient mindset, you can achieve lasting results without feeling miserable along the way.
The journey may not always be easy, but every small step you take adds up to meaningful progress. Breaking through plateaus, cravings, and setbacks are just part of the process, and learning to navigate them with patience and consistency is what sets you up for successful fat loss.
If you’re feeling stuck, unsure about where to start, or lack fat loss motivation, don’t give up. The strategies I’m sharing here are just a starting point, and the truth is, everyone’s journey looks a little different. Sometimes, having a coach to guide you can make all the difference.
Whether it’s me or someone else you trust, working with a professional can help you cut through the confusion, create a plan tailored to your needs, and stay on track when challenges arise.
If you’re ready to take that next step, I’d love to help you on your journey. Together, we can build a plan that works for your life, supports your goals, and empowers you to achieve sustainable results.
Remember: you’re capable of so much more than you think - don’t be afraid to ask for help and to keep moving forward.
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Here’s to a happier and well-balanced body!
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